

This is one of my favourite photos of me! Self pleasure is so important to me and this encapsulates a moment so well. Most women I talk to tell me the best orgasms they have are when the build up is sensual and slow, but that doesn’t necessarily mean foreplay. For couples, it could be whispering something suggestive in the ear when you’re out to dinner, or passionate make out sessions right before you leave for work for the day so they are wondering about you all day. I think for me I feel the most “on” when I feel like I’m not sure if it’s in the bag or not. Like a tension that keeps heightening. So my advice is if you’re partnered, don’t only touch them when you’re horny, or make out when you want it to go somewhere. Do all those things anyway for the pleasure of it and keep them thinking sexy thoughts of you at the forefront of their minds. Plant sexy seeds all the time.